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Family Support

Emmanuel Missionary Baptist Church's Family Support Ministry
exists mainly to serve the needs of the church congregation.
As Christians we are faced with the same kinds of struggles
and challenges as anyone else, but sometimes we are
reluctant to reach out for help. By addressing the underlying
needs around these struggles and challenges, this ministry
can help strengthen our congregation as a whole.
This is how God will use this ministry to empower the body of Christ.

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The EMBC Family Support Ministry's mission is to serve God by providing support and encouragement to our Emmanuel family. Our goal is to strengthen our church family by effecting change in the lives of people, and to provide counseling and education to those who have expressed a desire for it.

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Article Of The Month

Got Peace?
The importance of having meaningful peace in your life

Recommended Reading

The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

Marriage & Family Life

Children Learn What They Live by Dorothy Law Nolte

Parenting Tips

Children need parents to stop just being their friend

Health & Wellness

Recognizing A Stroke

Taking It Personally (T.I.P.)

Sun, Moon, and Stars

The sun is glorious in one way, the moon is glorious in another way, and the stars are glorious in their own [distinctive] way; for one star differs from and surpasses another in its beauty and brilliance. I Corinthians 15: 41 (Amplified Bible)

We are all different. Like the sun, moon, and stars, God has created us to be different from one another, and He has done it on purpose. Each of us fills a need, and we are all part of God’s overall plan. When you struggle to be like others, not only do you lose yourself, you also grieve the Holy Spirit. God wants you to fit into His plan, not to feel pressured trying to fit into everyone else’s plans.

We are all born with different temperaments, different gifts and abilities, etc. Your goal should be to find out what you individually are supposed to be, and then succeed at being that. Different is good!

Reference:
Myer, Joyce (2004). Ending your day right. New York: Time Warner Book Group. p. 171.

Family Support Survey Results

Thanks for participating in the "EMBC Survey of Needs." Here are the results: 160 respondents (38% males, 62% females). 75% indicated an interest in counseling services, support groups and workshops. Top 3 issues in rank order: 1) Financial Freedom; 2) Family Relationships; 3) Health & Wellness. Other suggested programs will be considered in the ministry’s strategy.

Got Peace?
ARTICLE OF THE MONTH

 

A rare, precious, priceless gift is the peace that passes all understanding. Everybody wants it, but everybody can’t find it. This hustle and bustle, daily grind, buy and sell, appointments to keep, people to meet, haste and always hectic that we call “life” needs a big dose of peace. Chaos is invasive! It penetrates and disrupts every aspect of our lives. Thought become stressful, relationships become resentful, and work becomes unfruitful and sleep becomes impossible. You need peace to overcome the chaos. But you need to have the right peace. Notice how many Walgreen, CVS and Canada Drugs are around? You know what they sell most? Pharmaceutical peace. Pill peace to help you sleep. Pink peace to ease your stomach. Powder peace to ease you mind. The thing is these quick comfort remedies don’t fix the real problem. Headache, sleep loss and diarrhea are usually symptoms of anxiety that come from poor living.

Real close to Walgreen’s you’ll find a liquor store. It can’t give you peace either. They can only give temporary euphoria. The price though (monetarily, socially, emotionally and spiritually) is too much to pay. Plus you have to do more to get less. Some try to get away. Unfortunately, life is such that trouble can find you where you are. In fact, real life issues will go with you wherever you go and true peace is not found in vacations.

God gives real peace - meaningful not momentary, systematic not symptomatic, but anywhere, any time peace (Isaiah 26:3). Real peace comes from God’s Word. That truth becomes even clearer when you look back on things. The most anxious, stressful, sleepless, hostile, chaotic moments of my life came from disobeying God’s Word. God doesn’t tell us what to do because he’s bossy. He tells us how to live because He knows the secret to successful, stress-free productive, happy living. There is nothing like the peace of living Godly. How are you living?

Blogged by David Wilson
Minister of Kings Church of Christ
Brooklyn, New York

Recommended Reading

The Five Love Languages

by Gary Chapman

This book is an excellent communication tool. Many times misunderstandings in a relationship happen simply because we are speaking “different languages”. If you’d like to understand someone with a different point of view, this book is MUST read.

From the Publisher
Click To PurchaseAre you and your spouse speaking the same language? While love is a many splendored thing, it is sometimes a very confusing thing, too. And as people come in all varieties, shapes, and sizes, so do their choices of personal expressions of love. But more often than not, the giver and the receiver express love in two different ways. This can lead to misunderstanding, quarrels, and even divorce. Dr. Gary Chapman identifies five basic languages of love and then guides couples towards a better understanding of their unique languages of love. Learn to speak and understand your mate's love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return. Skillful communication is within your grasp!Click here for the Study Guide for Spouse and Group Discussion.

Marriage & Family Life
CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE
By Dorothy Law Nolte

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration,
they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith
in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world
is a nice place in which to live.

Parenting Tips
Children need parents to stop just being their friend and to provide true  structure for their lives.

If you want your children to know Christ, live it out for them each day. It is vital that single parents find emotional support through friends, family, and the Church.

It is vital that single parents find emotional support through friends, family and the Church.

Health & Wellness
RECOGNIZING A STROKE

During a BBQ, a friend stumbled and took a little fall. She assured everyone that she was fine (they offered to call paramedics) . She said she had just tripped because of her new shoes. They got her cleaned up and got her a new plate of food.

While she appeared a bit shaken up, Corinne went about enjoying herself the rest of the evening. Corinne’s husband called later telling everyone that his wife had been taken to the hospital. At 6:00 pm Corinne passed away. She had suffered a stroke at the BBQ. Had they known how to identify the signs of a stroke, perhaps Corinne would be with us today. Some don’t die. Instead, they end up in a helpless, possibly hopeless condition. It only takes a minute to read this:

A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within 3 hours he can totally reverse the effects of a stroke…totally. He said the trick was getting a stroke recognized, diagnosed and then getting the patient medically cared for within 3 hours, which is tough.

RECOGNIZING A STROKE – Thank God for the sense to remember the 3 steps. STR. Read and learn! Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster. The stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke. Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions:

S Ask the individual to SMILE.

T Ask the individual to TALK and SPEAK a simple sentence

coherently. For example: “It is sunny out today”.

R Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS.

Also, ask the person to stick out their tongue. If the tongue is crooked, if it goes to one side or the other, that is an indication of a stroke.

If he or she has trouble with any one of these tasks, call 911 immediately and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher.

 


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THE REVEREND
Cleveland A. Thompson
SENIOR PASTOR

SISTER
Betty J. Shepherd
FAMILY SUPPORT MINISTRY LEADER

SISTER
Si’Mona Lovett
SECRETARY

Leadership Council

THE REVEREND
Cleveland A. Thompson
SENIOR PASTOR

DEACON
Kervin Mack
CHAIRMAN
MINISTRY OF DEACONS

DEACON
Kevin L. Hagans
DIRECTOR OF OPERATIONS

Ministry Staff

DEACON
Kevin L. Hagans
DIRECTOR OF OPERATIONS

SISTER
Laura Victor
EXECUTIVE ADMINISTRATOR

MINISTER
Gerald Clay
MINISTER OF MUSIC

THE REVEREND
Neil M. Brown
MINISTER TO YOUTH

SISTER
Janice Donald
ASSISTANT DIRECTOR OF OPERATIONS

BROTHER
Glenn Strayhorn
CHURCH CUSTODIAN

Associate Ministers

THE REVEREND
Neil M. Brown
MINISTER TO YOUTH

THE REVEREND
Willie Davis
PRISON MINISTRY

THE REVEREND
Savannah M. Jackson

THE REVEREND
Gerald T. McMillian

THE REVEREND
Derric R. Thomas

THE REVEREND
Jesse E. Vaughan, Sr.

Church Ministries

AdMinistry
Ms. Laura Victor
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Ministry of Deacons
Deacon Kervin Mack
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Ministry of AIDS
Ms. Robin René Koonce
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Ministry of Church School
Mrs. Gwendolyn White
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Ministry of Culinary Arts
Ms. Wanda Foster
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Ministry of Family Support
Ms. Betty Shepard
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Golden Age Ministry
Mr. AZ Craver
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Helping Hands Ministry
Ms. Melonie Reed
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Male Chorus Ministry
Deacon Leonard Williams
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Media Ministry
Deacon Troy Jackson
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Ministry of Music
Minister Gerald Clay
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Ministry to New Disciples
Mrs. Whelmenia Mayo
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Ministry of PALS
Mrs. Rhonda Campbell
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Ministry of Pastor's Partners
Mrs. Brenda Bell
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Ministry to Prisons
Reverend Willie Davis
EMMANUEL BAPTIST CHURCH

Ministry of Scholarships
Deacon Kervin Mack
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SHARE Colorado Ministry
Mrs. Fran Frazier
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Ministry of Scouting
Ms. Shariyun Alberty
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Ministry of Transportation
Mr. Roy Bishop
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Ministry of Ushers
Mr. AZ Craver
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Ministry To Women
Minister Tanya Tyson
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Ministry To Youth
Reverend Neil Brown
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